Sex... Yes that's right ... Sex

Even in this day and age, some people still get funny about sex and talking about it, yet its one of the most natural things that happens and I'm pretty sure all of you on my Facebook do it... literally! (Stop reading now if you don't want to hear about it!)

When I younger I used to kept so much in from parents regarding things like sex because it was embarrassing but as I'm older if my mum asks a question ill give her the answers whether she wants to know it or not! (Most times she follows up with I didn't need to know that! Well you shouldn't have asked!)

My dads a bit different we don't say it in such words but for example, I was getting picked up from a pub recently and as I said bye to him he asked who was picking me up.... My respond "A friend" He then proceeded to ask who, I responded with "you don't want to know" with that he got what type of friend it was and no more was said on the situation !

Just because I'm single doesn't mean I don't have needs, and friends in a similar situation are the same! I'm a girl who likes sex as much as most men! That doesn't make me a slag, a whore or whatever other name you want to call it, it makes me human and as long as your safe why cant women sleep with men when there not in a relationship? Its not frown upon when a man does it so shouldn't be for a women either!

I'm not going to tell you my number, but I have been single for a while and if the opportunity presents itself I'm going to take it! Every person I have been with is different and yes relationship sex can be better but that's because other feelings are involved not just lust! Don't get me wrong I have had some amazing sex when I've been single too when the sexual tension is just to much!

There is one person who tops my list and is the best I have ever had.... so far! We just knew how each other worked and the heat between us was so hot that when I saw them I just wanted to jump on! (We did get on well normally too, it wasn't just about the sex) But I never compare other people to him because everyone is different and each person has there own unique way which works for them and hopefully me! The more times you have sex with the same person the better it gets too as you figure out what you both like!

I just want to get one thing clear too, just because I like sex I can go without, if its not right or I'm not in the best place! I wont just go to town and sleep with a random because its been a while, its normally a friends with benefit or someone i have clicked with!

That's why Ann Summers was invented for girls as its much easier for men to satisfy themselves! Now this post was more about making sure girls don't think badly about themselves for having a one night stand or a friends with benefits... it is allowed because we have needs to not just men!

Your only young once so make the most of it! I hope I find a guy I can spend the rest of my life with have amazing sex just with him for the rest of my like but because of how I live my life I have no regrets and everyone should be the same and not care with out people think! Do it for you!

I talk about sex with my close friends, some who are married, some who have kids and others who are single. Everyone is different and has different views on what they want and what they would do, no one is the same and nothing is the normal! But in 2018 and with all the beautiful 50 shade films its is more expectable to say... Yes I like being tied up and ohh you must punish me Mr Grey!